Tests

Behavioral pattern checkups

Choose a test based on the pattern you are trying to understand. Designed to help you detect structure, not just react to single episodes.

All Current Relationship Parental Patterns Recurring Dynamics Exit Dynamics

Current relationship checkup

See how your current dynamic behaves on a structural level, not through isolated episodes.

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You are an option checkup

See if you're genuinely chosen or just someone they return to when nothing better is happening.

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Mixed signals interest gap

Map how consistent their interest really is, beyond words and busy right now.

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Third person in the grey zone

See how much risk of a triangle you're living with through just a friend or a secret chat.

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Can you trust their signals?

Test how readable this person really is: clear pattern or just noise you're decoding.

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Hypercontrolling parent pattern

Check if what you grew up with was care or control, guilt, and humiliation dressed up as love.

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Repeating breakup pattern

Look at your breakups as a repeating structure, not just bad luck or wrong people.

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After a serious breach of trust

See whether the relationship is actually healing or just frozen around the wound.

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Silent exit from the relationship

Check if you're still in a living relationship, or if one of you is already quietly checking out.

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This tool is not therapy, medical care, or legal advice. It cannot diagnose anything or tell you what to do. You are fully responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on these checkups.